Should I leave job? Am I not taking care of my daughter/son? Am I an irresponsible mother? A working lady is always asking these questions to herself as sometimes, the whole world is standing on the other side and trying to prove that she is doing injustice to her family and especially to her child.
Those who understand the value and views of a working lady, always appreciate the way she handles the challenges she daily face. Doing household chores, keeping in mind all those small details of everyone’s likings and ensuring security of home when she leaves for the office, she is going for the family. Facing idiot faces in public transport, running behind buses and fighting for small money-she is not doing for her. Working tirelessly in office and sometime even getting scolds from boss, she still ensures that she enters the home with a smile and cool mind. She keeps calling at home for kids, their lunch, their home work and their security. She go to the office even when she fell ill as she knows she need to keep spare leaves for kids/husband/family at the time of need. She earns pretty well but still never spend money for her as she want to save it for the family.
Some have other views- She is thinking for her own only. Her career and her job is her main priority and she is not thinking for the family at all. She does not care for her husband and even her kids-what an insensitive lady she is!!! Money is her first and last priority, she is an emotionless lady. Her husband is earning well and what is the need of her going out for that meager amount. Some even has better version-She go out as she cannot sit at home. Staying at home and looking for every need of family is more challenging than leaving everything at maid/family for money. She earn meager amount and in lieu of that she made whole family a servant and even then she has that extra attitude.
Whatever it is, whoever views it is- I know only one thing; Do what you think is right. This is your life lady, live it the way you want. Care for everyone-family, husband and kids but never stop living. Unless you are happy and content, you cannot make someone. It is you and only you who have right to decide your way of living. Sometime you need to compromise, at times you need to hide your wishes and you need to hold your dreams but never let them die.
A lion always walk behind by few steps to take a long jump/run. You may walk behind for a clear vision but never stay behind.
