Till the last year, I was among those lucky persons who are quite satisfied with their life, surrounded by loving and caring people and enjoying life to the fullest. My friends used to love talking to me and share their problems with me considering me a panacea for their problems.

But last year, I lost panacea of my life- My mother.  Her sudden death tore me apart and my life shattered after her death. Time heals every wound I heard but in my case it won’t work. It’s been almost a year but I still sometimes take my phone and just dial her number. Thank God, I am not a pampered girl who is in the habit of sharing each and every thing with the mother or the father else I would have missed her more. When she died, it was unbelievable and shocking. With time, I realized that it is true and I can never get her back. So, better accept the truth and move ahead with her inspirations in life.

Truly, it is hard to bear the pain of such irreparable loss in life. There are many more in the world around like me who lost their loving ones untimely- could be anyone- a Brother, sister, parents, husband, kid, lover, a good friend but the pain is same.

This article is for those who have spent crying nights questioning God about the miseries he gave to them. This is to share the pain and giving a shoulder to share the tears. But then, we all cannot deny that life has to live the way it comes across to us. So, live your life for the one you lost, for their happiness and don’t blame God for anything.

Trust me, It is all written somewhere and we cannot change it so better accept and stop mourning.