What we look in a person when we meet him/her for the first time?  Looks/ clothes/ sense of humour or the soul? People spend hours in choosing a dress, in make-up, to make themselves presentable but how much time we spent for self- improvement?

Everyone is joining the rat race of being slim, confident or at least mock confident and to improve the outer beauty. Gyms, spa, Parlours visits are more than any spiritual centre or temple. One can spend hours sitting in parlours for their turn and then for the treatment but can not spare some quality time for prayers or meditation.

Have you ever tried calling to your own number?? It is always engaged. We talk to so many people over the phone in a day but when we try talking to ourself, it is engaged. Same way, we talk to so many people in a day around us when have we ever tried to talk to ourself?

Forget about us, have we ever tried to talk to the soul in the body of the person we are dealing with? We always talk to the body and sometimes we prejudice also about people depending on our thoughts. When we judge people on the outer beauty, they also do the same and it leads a peer expectation for us also to look better. There is nothing bad in doing efforts to look good, to dress well and behave confident but if we neglect the inner beauty  over the outer beauty then this is the worst mistake.

Try to improve the inner as well as outer beauty and don't judge people on the outer looks only.

We need to understand, we are not the hair, not the skin. We are the soul that lives within.                                                                                                                                                                                                         

Yes, this is the demand of time. At offices, at home at social media people are liking the one who behave according to them.

No matter whether they are genuine or not but people see what they want to see. If someone wants you to smile in his happiness, just do it. We came across many people you acts like they are genuinely interested in my problem but in actual they are not.

I observe few official in my office who pretend to be social to everyone but at the back of the person they are talking bad words with whom they are sharing their lifetime moment few minutes back. I observe these people who are pretentious and least concerned for someone's feelings. But they call it need of the time. The best part is they pretend so well that the person at the other end could not even identify it.

This is also an art, to make everyone feel like you are my best buddy. Such people are of two types, one who are genuinely everybodies' friend and feel good for all and the other who only pretend to be so.

But whatever it is I feel sometime, that even I need to start being pretentious as I saw people becoming success by making others feel good.